WHAT IS IT?

Family mediation is a collaborative process where a neutral mediator helps families resolve disputes related to divorce or custody for an ongoing litigation. The mediator facilitates negotiation, guiding both parties to reach mutually acceptable agreements. This approach aims to reduce conflict, save time and expenses, and empower families to make decisions that are in their best interests.

HOW DOES IT WORK?

Family Facilitators are licensed professionals with specific training in alternative dispute resolution, family dynamics, and domestic violence. Facilitators can talk with parents, professionals, children, anyone involved in coming to a resolution. Typically, each party pays for their own time. However, its acceptable for one party to fund the entire process.

WHAT IF MY CO-PARENT WON’T PARTICIPATE?

A court can order a party to attend mediation.  Many courts require mediation before a contested hearing that will determine custody. 

HOW MUCH IS THE FINANCIAL INVESTMENT?

Each mediator sets their own fees and many local dispute resolution centers off free or low cost mediations. An experienced private mediator ranges from  $100/hour to $300/hour while the average custody trial is over $10,000.00 for each parent. For a list of potential mediators, check out the Find a Mediator or Facilitator page.

IS IT ENFORCEABLE BY A COURT?

Yes. While there are always exceptions, generally a Mediated Settlement Agreement is enforceable by a court. In fact, even if a judge does not agree with your settlement, the law may require them to uphold it nonetheless. 

CAN I BECOME A FAMILY MEDIATOR? 

Each state has its own requirements for Mediators.  In Texas, you must complete a Court approved training course.  You can find one here: